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In a therapy setting, you can explore your sexuality or gender identity. Sexuality and gender identity are important components of overall health. Working with a knowledgeable, supportive, and competent therapist can help you make great changes in your life. My sessions are centered on the context and intersectional viewpoints, as well as how they influence a person’s sexuality and gender identities. We’d talk about coming out, cultural, religious, and societal conceptions of non-conventional identities, and other topics.

Mego Nerses - Psychotherapist in Ottawa

Mego Nerses

Med, RP, CCC

Mego Nerses - Trauma psychotherapist Ottawa
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Sexuality and gender identity

How can therapy help me understand and accept my gender identity or sexual orientation? and, How do I find a therapist who specializes in treating issues related to sexuality and gender identity?

Online psychotherapy offers a powerful, and effective option for those who are struggling with mental health problems.

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If you or someone you know is suffering from Sexuality and Gender Identity issues, it is important to take steps to seek help. There are several ways to find a therapist who specializes in treating issues related to sexuality and gender identity, and help deal with one’s own internal sense of self and gender.

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LGBTQI affirmative Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

This form of therapy focuses on identifying and changing negative thoughts and behaviors that may be contributing to the issue.

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LGBTQI affirmative Person-centered therapy

This approach focuses on creating a safe and non-judgmental environment where the individual can explore their thoughts, feelings.

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LGBTQI affirmative Interpersonal therapy (IPT)

This therapy focuses on relationships and communication, and can be helpful for addressing issues related to relationships and family dynamics .

How can therapy help me understand and accept my gender identity or sexual orientation?

Therapy can help individuals understand and accept their gender identity or sexual orientation by providing a safe, non-judgmental, and confidential space to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences.

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Additionally, therapy can also help individuals to increase their self-awareness, self-acceptance and self-esteem, and build a sense of self-worth, which is crucial to live a fulfilling life.
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A long career in psychotherapy and extensive experience working in social service agencies allowed me to build a set of core competencies that I confidently use to help my clients process their past traumas and move forward in life. If you need help overcoming your emotional and life challenges, or you’re suffering from trauma caused by torture, persecution, or violence, book a consultation today.

Mego Nerses - Psychotherapist in Ottawa

Mego Nerses

Med, RP, CCC

During a therapy session for issues related to sexuality and gender identity, you can expect the following...

Confidentiality

The therapist will ensure that your privacy is protected and that any information shared in session will not be shared with anyone without your consent.

Safety

You should feel safe and comfortable discussing your thoughts, feelings, and experiences related to your sexuality and gender identity.

Support

The therapist will provide a non-judgmental and supportive environment where you can explore your feelings and experiences.

Exploration

You will be encouraged to explore your thoughts and feelings related to your sexuality and gender identity. This may include discussing your experiences, any challenges you may be facing, and your goals for therapy.

Education

The therapist may provide you with information and resources that can help you better understand your sexuality and gender identity, and the different issues that may be associated with it.

Coping strategies

The therapist may help you develop coping strategies to deal with any challenges you may be facing related to your sexuality and gender identity.

Acceptance

The therapist will support you to accept and understand yourself, as well as to navigate any challenges you may be facing related to your sexuality and gender identity.

Affirmation

The therapist will use an affirmative approach, which means that the therapist respects and affirms the person's sexual orientation and gender identity.

Flexibility

The therapist will work with you to set goals for therapy and will adjust the therapy to meet your specific needs.

Some Therapy - FAQs

  • Gender identity, including gender confusion, transitioning, and dealing with prejudice and discrimination
  • Sexual orientation, involves disclosing one’s sexual orientation, discovering one’s sexual identity, and overcoming prejudice and discrimination based on sexual orientation.
  • Sexual dysfunction, including problems with arousal, desire, and orgasmic capacity
  • Sexual trauma, such as dealing with the fallout from sexual assault or abuse
  • Relationship problems, such as overcoming prejudice and discrimination in partnerships, navigating non-traditional relationships, and forging wholesome connections.
  • Self-esteem and body image in relation to one’s gender and sexual orientation
  • Gender and sexuality-related family dynamics and parenting
  • Gender- and sexuality-related workplace and career concerns
  • Finding and using gender- and sexuality-related healthcare.

There are several ways to find a therapist who specializes in treating issues related to sexuality and gender identity:

  1. Request recommendations from medical professionals, close friends, or family members who have used therapists successfully.
  2. To find therapists in your area who specialize in sexuality and gender identity, contact professional associations like the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association or the World Professional Association for Transgender Health (WPATH).
  3. Consult online directories for therapists that specialize in addressing issues connected to sexuality and gender identity, such as Psychology Today and GoodTherapy.org.
  4. Ask your insurance provider if they have a list of local therapists who specialize in sexual orientation and gender identity.
  5. Consider contacting LGBTQIA+ centers, campus counseling services at colleges, or other groups that may have a list of therapists who specialize in sexuality and gender identity issues.

Before making an appointment, it’s crucial to speak with the therapist, ask them questions, and feel at ease around them. Additionally, confirm that the therapist employs an affirmative approach and is qualified, experienced, and licensed to work with issues relating to sexual orientation and gender identity.

Yes, there are a number of self-help tools accessible for people struggling with sexuality and gender identity concerns. Several instances include:

  • Books: There are numerous books that offer knowledge, comfort, and direction to people struggling with sexuality and gender identity concerns. Some well-known books on the subject include “The Velvet Rage: Overcoming the Pain of Growing Up Gay in a Straight Man’s World” by Alan Downs, “Transgender 101: A Simple Guide to a Complex Issue” by Nicholas Teich, and “The Gender Quest Workbook: A Guide for Teens and Young Adults Exploring Gender Identity” by Rylan Jay Testa, Deborah Coolhart, Jayme Peta.
  • Online Support Groups: For anyone struggling with sexuality and gender identity issues, there are a ton of online support groups available. These groups give people a secure, private, and encouraging setting in which to connect with others who share their experiences.
  • Website: There are various websites that offer resources, information, and assistance to people struggling with sexuality and gender identity concerns. Some popular websites include the Human Rights Campaign, The Trevor Project, and PFLAG.

Depending on the person’s health plan, there may or may not be insurance coverage for counseling connected to concerns with gender identity and sexual orientation. Therapy services are not covered by OHIP unless they are provided by a medical professional.

  • No, counseling cannot alter a person’s gender identity or sexual orientation. Sexual orientation and gender identity are intrinsic components of an individual’s identity and cannot be altered through therapy or other interventions. Conversion therapy—also known as therapy intended to alter a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity—has received widespread criticism from organizations of trained psychologists and physicians.
  • Conversion therapy, also known as reparative therapy, is a harmful practice aimed at changing a person’s sexual orientation or gender identity. Major mental health organizations, including the American Psychological Association, the American Medical Association, and the World Health Organization, have all condemned this practice, claiming that it is ineffective, potentially harmful, and can lead to depression, anxiety, and suicide.
  • The goal of therapy should be to assist the patient embrace and understand who they are, not to try to alter them, while also respecting their sexual orientation and gender identity.
  • In a supportive and non-judgmental setting, therapy can assist people who are having trouble accepting their sexual orientation or gender identity in understanding and processing their feelings and navigating any obstacles they may be facing.
  • Finding a therapist who is skilled and experienced in addressing sexuality and gender identity issues is crucial. The therapist should also utilize a positive approach, which means that they recognize and support the patient’s sexual orientation and gender identity.
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380 Hunt Club Rd unit 101
Ottawa, ON K1V 1C1

Booking Hours - Gilmour Street

For the downtown location on Gilmour Street, Please choose either Tuesdays or Wednesdays to book in-person sessions. Mondays and Thursdays are online only.

Booking Hours - Hunt Club

Please choose only Fridays or Saturday mornings Online or in-person. Reserved only for patients of Santé Health Alliance Medical Clinic. A referral is required from your family doctor at Santé Health Alliance.

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Phone: +1 613 266.6 203
Fax: +1 613 212.8878
Email: mnpsychotherapy@gmail.com

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About MEGO NERSES

I am an Ottawa-based Registered Psychotherapist and have a full-time private practice. In the past, I worked in social service agencies for many years. I offer individual, relationship, and sex therapy in English, Arabic, and Armenian to adults 18+, and I do not work with minors.

In 2011, I earned a master’s degree in Counselling from the University of Ottawa. I am a Registered Psychotherapist in Ontario (CRPO#001132) with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario. In addition, I am a Certified Counsellor with the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association (CCPA#3058). My clinical training focuses on relationship and sex therapy and trauma/PTSD. Since 2013, I have been at Algonquin College as a seasonal professor, teaching courses in mental health and addiction.

I feel privileged to have had the opportunity to publish peer-reviewed articles and contribute chapters concerning Counselling, coming out, and trauma related explicitly to LGBTQ+ refugees and newcomers to Canada. I have presented numerous workshops and continue to offer trainings nationally and internationally on the mental health of LGBTQI+ and SOGIE refugees and asylum seekers.

In 2020, I launched my online learning platform to offer courses to clinicians who work with the refugee population. Learn more about my elearning platform at www.mnelearning.ca

Professional expertise

Early in my professional career, I specialized in individual therapy and served clients with depression, anxiety, PTSD and grief. Since then, I have taken my clinical work to a higher level and gained expertise in four areas: PTSD and Trauma, Sexuality and Gender Identity, Sex and Relationship Therapy, and Refugee mental health issues. I have received various trainings in these areas since choosing to specialize. As an example, I received training from Division 56, Trauma Psychology, Physicians for Human Rights, and the Global Institute of Forensic Research in writing immigration evaluations for immigration courts. Furthermore, I have completed multiple trainings in trauma/PTSD therapy and relationship therapy (Poly. Kink). I have participated in numerous training opportunities in the field of sex therapy, sexuality, and gender identity. 

I am a LGBTQI+/poly/kink/CNM supportive and informed therapist.

Therapeutic approaches
In addition to Narrative Exposure Therapy for PTSD (NET), I have also been trained in Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) for PTSD and Experiential Therapy and Focusing. I integrate social justice and rights-based principles into my work as a trauma-informed therapist.

Awards
In recognition of my dedication to helping LGBTQ+ refugees and asylum seekers in Canada, I received the 2017 Humanitarian Award from the Canadian Counselling and Psychotherapy Association (CCPA).

AffiliationsI have an international affiliate membership with Division 56, Trauma Psychology, the American Psychological Association (APA), and the Global Institute of Forensic Research.

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